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Friday, August 31, 2018

August Book List

Ten books read this month - six of them from the Lucas Davenport series.

One Sunday Morning by Amy Ephron is set during Prohibition. In sparse chapters, tersely penned, it relates how the strictures of polite society come into conflict with the liberated spirit of the Jazz Age.

Never Tell A Lie by Hallie Ephron is a psychological suspense tale of a yard sale gone terribly wrong. Reminded me some of Gone Girl. (Amy and Hallie Ephron are sisters.)

No Defense by Kate Wilhelm is the 5th in her Barbara Holloway series. I enjoy these mysteries set in the Eugene/Bend areas of Oregon. Wilhelm writes well and crafts good stories.

Broken Prey and Invisible Prey are #'s 16 and 17 in John Sandford's Lucas Davenport series.

All Things Bright and Beautiful is one of James Herriot's memoirs of his time as a country veterinarian in Yorkshire, England. These books were hugely popular 30 years ago and I resisted reading them at that time just because "everyone" else was reading them.
One of my Facebook friends recently reviewed them so convincingly I decided it was time I read at least one to see what I thought. I liked it immensely. It is beautifully written and reminded me so much of my own experiences growing up on a farm and around animals.

Phantom Prey, Wicked Prey, Storm Prey and Buried Prey are #'s 18, 19, 20 and 21 of John Sandford's Lucas Davenport series.

Thursday, August 30, 2018

Younkers Memories

A couple weeks ago when we were in Des Moines and drove along Douglas past Merle Hay Mall, I saw the big yellow "Going Out Of Business" sign on the Younkers building. The last Younkers Department Stores closed yesterday along with "it's the end of an era" comments.
An era is defined as "a long and distinct period of history with a particular feature or characteristic" and Younkers certainly held that distinction. Who, in Iowa, doesn't have memories of shopping at Younkers?

The history of Younkers goes back to Keokuk in 1856 where three brothers from Poland, Lipman, Samuel and Marcus Younker, opened a dry-goods store. A younger brother, Herman, established a store in Des Moines in 1874. The Keokuk store was closed five years later and his brothers joined him in operating the Des Moines location. The Younker Brothers main store was moved to 7th and Walnut in 1899.

In 1864, Julius Mandelbaum, a German immigrant, opened a dry-goods store at Second and Court in Des Moines. In the 1920's J. Mandelbaum and Sons merged with Younkers Brothers as part of Younkers, Inc.

My memories of shopping at Younkers go back to the late 60's, early 70's after we moved to an acreage northwest of Merle Hay Mall. At that time the Younkers store was the anchor on the south side of the Mall.
Two early memories involve my daughter: 1) Last minute Christmas Eve shopping and finding a 'price-slashed' doll for Kari. That was a big deal because we didn't have a lot to spend on Christmas gifts that year.
2) About three years later, driving to Merle Hay Mall in my old 9-passenger Ford station wagon with Kari in one of the two little, folding, jump seats in the back - right above a leaky exhaust system.

We entered the store and went to, as I remember it, the basement. I was looking around for whatever I went after, shoes, maybe?, when Kari crumpled to the floor. No, warning, no words, just out. I tried to rouse her with no response. Fear and panic gripped me and I started crying out for help. One of the Younkers associates bent down next to us and put her hand under Kari's head, thinking she might have been knocked out from striking her head as she fell. Just then Kari began to revive. It had only been a few seconds, but it seemed like forever. The clerk helping us suggested we take her to the employee lounge and led us there, providing a drink of water and a cool cloth for her forehead. (And a place for me to sit down before I fainted from my scare.)
I remember a male supervisor being summoned. Even though by then my daughter was completely revived, he wanted us to wait another twenty minutes to be sure she was okay. I suppose there was some concern about a lawsuit, but the store wasn't at fault. It was the fumes from my car's faulty muffler that had caused her to faint.

Other Younkers shopping memories are of the main store, after I started working downtown for an advertising and public relations firm in 1970. Anything you could want could be found somewhere in that shiny, lovely, huge department store. And my wanting was a hunger I couldn't afford to feed. I certainly couldn't afford to buy anything there. At least I didn't think I could until I found the bargain basement.

I knew about the famous Younkers Tea Room, but I never felt brave enough to walk through the designer dresses and furs show room to get there, let alone feel comfortable among the stylish women lunching in the Tea Room.
Ah, but the basement had its own affordable lunch counter. It was there I had my first Welsh Rarebit - and discovered it didn't contain any rabbit after all!
The basement, like the rest of the store, was a labyrinth one had to learn to navigate. In 1944, Younkers purchased the old Chase and West building across Eighth Street and opened The Younkers Store for Homes. It was in the underground passageway between it and the main store where I discovered the record department and bought my first Helen Reddy and John Denver LP's. There was also an area of close-out merchandise there which I regularly perused. I don't remember anything specific I bought, but glassware sticks in my mind.

On the east side of the first floor there was an escalator to the second floor. It was installed in 1939, the first escalator in Iowa. I remember jewelry, perfumes, wallets and purses on the ground floor where you stepped onto the moving stairs to rise regally to the second floor - or at least that is the way it felt to me - and be among rack after rack of women's dresses.

It was after I went to work at an advertising and public relations firm in the Empire Building that my experience with Younkers moved to a more personal level. My office was part of a suite spread across the entire south end of the 7th floor. From there back to the elevators smaller offices lined both sides of the hallway. The small, two-room office on the right as you walked out of our space was rented by a retired vice-president of Younkers. About half-way down on the left his brother, a lawyer, had an office.
My boss, Tom, and the retired Younkers exec, Bill, were friends. Bill did not need any office help except for an hour or two once in a while and someone to check his mail when he was out of town for two or three months during the winter. There were times I wasn't busy, so Bill offered to reimburse Tom for me to do some work for him. That is when I learned that Bill had an even closer relationship to Younkers than having worked for them - his wife was one of J. Mandelbaum's granddaughters.
Bill and his brother, Nick, usually had lunch together and once in awhile Tom and I would be invited to go along. I think that one of those times was the first time I entered Younkers Tea Room. I believe Bill's former secretary at Younkers and the then current head of Younkers were there that time, too. Or maybe it was a subsequent lunch, because Bill and Nick and Tom often included me when they went to the Des Moines Club (Bill's club) or to the Embassy (Tom's club). I mostly quietly ate and listened as the men discussed the topics of the day, which included politics, religion, world affairs, finance, etc. It was definitely a window on a whole 'nother world, for me.

After Denny and I separated and I began trying to establish credit in my own name, Younkers was the first store to issue me a credit card. (Possibly because my bank gave me my first - a Mastercard.) Shopping at Younkers took on a whole new perspective. (Do you remember your first credit card?) I still only bought things if they were on sale, but it was so marvelous to be able to get a new dress when I wanted to.

This was one of them. It looked like a 3-piece outfit - blouse, vest and skirt. But it was all one piece. The skirt was a burgundy, gray, black and white plaid. I felt so professional when wearing it.

Another one I especially remember was a full length black evening gown with a multi-colored jacket. I was looking specifically for just such an outfit and the only ones I could find were way too pricey. Then I found what I wanted at the Younkers Merle Hay store - and it was on sale!

Still so many more Younkers memories (including at least one of shopping at their Westroads Mall store in Omaha), but these are the final two - Younkers Parkade - the parking ramp on the north side of the downtown store. Remember how tight the exit spiral was? If you held the steering wheel clamped (and cramped) to the left you could go all the way down without changing it at all. And you arrived at the ticket booth slightly dizzy.

Lastly, this plaster of paris figurine. It is a treasure I paid $3.00 for, not at Younkers, but at a garage sale in Clive or West Des Moines many years ago. The woman I bought it from told me it had been part of a display in Younkers.
I call her the Younkers Mermaid.

The End. (Of an era.)

Wednesday, August 29, 2018

MD

I take a lot of pictures, many of them of my flowers. This one is of the tiniest blooms I have ever seen. Even though they are in a pot of sedum, they're the blossoms of small volunteer plant which looks very much like a shamrock - a teeny-tiny shamrock.

I take a lot of pictures. This month already, with three days yet to go, I have more than 450 in the August file and that doesn't count all I've taken and deleted.
This photo of two spent Cardinal Climber blooms made me think of earrings. But a recent realization is of how beautifully intricate the CC leaves are.

The statue and flower pots in this corner are being overtaken by the Cardinal Climber. Their hidden aspect makes me think "the secret garden". And then I'm reminded of the book - and movie. Do Zachary, Katrina and Alyssa remember when I took them to see the 1993 film? Or were they too young to remember?

I find myself taking more and more photos of clouds. This one, yesterday, of a swelling thunderhead above the swaying top of a cottonwood tree.

From the time I first had a camera of my own, I've tried to take artistic photos - like these scanned and made into a triptych.

Or this one, which, if you knew the name for the clematis and could read the rusty sign, you'd be able to extrapolate "Majestic Ramona". Which may seem more than a bit pretentious.....

.....until you remember that my blog is meant to be a reflection of my life for my family and friends.

Love After Love
   (By Derek Walcott 

The time will come
when, with elation
you will greet yourself arriving
at your own door, in your own mirror
and each will smile at the other's welcome,

and say, sit here. Eat.
You will love again the stranger who was your self.
Give wine. Give bread. Give back your heart
to itself, to the stranger who has loved you

all your life, whom you ignored
for another, who knows you by heart.
Take down the love letters from the bookshelf,

the photographs, the desperate notes,
peel your own image from the mirror.
Sit. Feast on your life.


If you are curious about the title of this post, MD is 1500 in Roman Numerals. And 1500 days is how old I was 39 days after this birthday picture of me was taken in 1947.

And this is the 1500th blog post of Chances R.

Tuesday, August 28, 2018

"Birds Do It, Bees Do It"

"Birds do it, bees do it, 
even educated fleas do it
Let's do it, let's fall in love." 
Cole Porter, 'Let's Do It' [Let's Fall In Love]


 Bees do it.


 Butterflies do it.


 Even wasps do it.

And if you're wondering about the birds...


 The scavengers have been flying over the pond the last few days.

 Looking for something - maybe love?


The preceding photos were taken earlier before this front moved through and brought us another nice rain. And cooler, dryer air if the forecasters are right.

Saturday, August 25, 2018

Adding To Grandma Bessie's Post Card Collection A Century+ Later

My blog post of September 26, 2010, "Postcards From the Past" was about old postcards from/to both my maternal and paternal grandmothers but the majority of the ones pictured were from Grandma (Bessie) Lynam's collection, many housed in the album pictured above.

In the same way that album found its way to me via one of Grandma's nephews (her sister Babe's [Agnes'] son, Ronald, to my brother Ronald to me), the two I received yesterday came from her niece, Elvera (Grandma's brother Leslie's daughter), through Elvera's daughter, Barb. (Are you confused yet? It would have been more confusing if my younger brother, Leslie, was involved.)

This is the first of the two cards Barb thoughtfully sent me. She said she found them among her mother's things and thought I would like to have them. She also wrote: "We all adored your Grandma Bessie." And I know they did, just as I loved her grandparents, Uncle Bus (Leslie) and Aunt Ethel.

The post card was "From Aggie" Sept. 1909; a fanciful and somewhat fragile card, given, rather than entrusted to the mail?

The second card is very pretty - a silver shoe filled with embossed roses and leaves. I wonder if the blank banner below the shoe was meant to hold a penned message?

I also wonder about this on the right edge: "Copyright J.P.N.Y. 1911".

Because on the back Grandma Bessie has noted: "Dec. 1909, Grandma Aggie". A card received in 1909 wouldn't have a 1911 copyright, would it?
Upon closer inspection it appears the back was a separate piece of paper glued to the card to make it a postcard. Did Grandma Aggie do that? Or did Grandma Bessie write down the wrong year she received it?

And why do I have to turn everything into a mystery instead of just enjoying the addition of these two cards back into Grandma's Post Card collection?

(Thank you, so much, Barb! 💖)

Friday, August 24, 2018

Ewer and Basin

When I posted 20 days ago about the blue pitcher my mother-in-law gave me, I commented that I didn't know its provenance.
This morning, in my Facebook Memories, this photo came up.

I thought I had already written about Grandma Lynam's ewer and basin, or as we called it, pitcher and bowl, but don't find it in my posts.

Back in the days before running water, a ewer and basin would have been found in every hotel room as well as in the guest room of private houses, which is where I imagine Grandma had hers.
For everyday use in the farm houses my grandmother knew, a bucket of water and tin wash pan was far more common.

I don't know how long my mom and dad had grandma's pitcher and bowl, but when I found it in their basement somewhere around 1980, Mom asked me if I wanted it. She didn't have to ask me twice! Reproduction ewers and basins had become popular decorating pieces, so I was already wanting a set, but to have the real deal and have it be something that had belonged to my grandparents made it extra special.

So, for the provenance, kiddies, I got it from my Mom; she said it was Grandpa and Grandma Lynam's. Beyond that, I don't know. I think of it as something they bought or received at the time of their marriage (1914). Could it have been something their parents or grandparents once owned? Possibly.

Also, just so you know - several years ago, something fell off a shelf and broke a piece out of the edge of the bowl. I kept the piece thinking it might be repairable, but before I tried, I found a bowl at a garage sale about four years ago. It comes very close to matching the pitcher.

An image search on Google will show you the many different styles and colors of these utilitarian, and pretty, pieces. I found one similar to Grandma's for sale for $299. However, it was marked on the bottom with the pottery company's stamp, while the set I have has no company mark. In other words, it probably isn't valuable except for its sentimentality.

Oh, and it does make a lovely vase for a large bouquet.

Tuesday, August 21, 2018

They Just Needed A Drink

Remember my 'Lonely Naked Lady' post from August 8? Turns out all they needed was a good drink of water from Mother Nature. We had more than 3-1/2" from Sunday until this morning. The Naked Ladies loved it.

An overhead view.

They weren't the only ones - more blooms on the Rose of Sharon.

And the Cardinal Climber is doing its best to take over the world patio.

A whirr alerted me that I had company while I was checking on the flowers. I've been noticing them more the past few days. I think they are readying for that long migration flight.

I've mentioned the fly fisherman before - Sunday morning while receiving happy news from my friend Kristina (she will be stopping to see us on her way to Wisconsin), I told her I was watching not one but three 'fly' men. Like me, she could not believe they were at our little pond. I've never seen them catch anything. My guess is, it is just practice.

My hope is, now that we've had a good rain, we'll have some more as summer winds down to autumn.

Monday, August 20, 2018

That Only Constant In Life

Thinking about one of my granddaughters this rainy morning and all the life  changes she is going to be making in the coming weeks and months.
I was aware she had been applying for a different position with her company, one that would take her to another location, but I didn't know until yesterday that she had accepted one.
Instead of moving to a like-size plant in Missouri or Tennessee, she's joining the personnel at corporate headquarters. It is a move that will take her to one of the Midwest's largest metropolitan areas.

So many first reactions: "Wow! That is going to be a big change!" "I'm happy for her, but was hoping she would move closer, not further away." "Her commute is going to be a nightmare." "Glad it is her and not me." "All the work ahead of her just getting ready to move! I couldn't do it."

Well, of course I couldn't do it - now. But thinking about all the changes I made in my life when I was her age - it hardly fazed me. Which also got me thinking about how different things were between her maturing and mine.

My growing up world was one still firmly agrarian and traditional. None of the mommies worked outside the home - well, except for doing farm chores, of course. Even in high school it was generally accepted that the females would graduate (hopefully), get married and raise a family. (Some went to business school, but only a few got a college degree.) As my Dad advised, I took typing, shorthand and bookkeeping so I could get a job "in case something happened to your husband". (In truth, I took those courses because I had always wanted to be a secretary and work in an office.)

My granddaughter grew up in a home where both Dad AND Mom went to work everyday; where she not only wanted to get a job but expected to go to college.

So, while I imagine her life as she navigates all the changes, I will not doubt that she is able, capable and ready - after all, she is the one who, at age five said, "We can do it all."

Saturday, August 18, 2018

The Butterfly Effect?

-- or something similar - where one change in a system can effect changes elsewhere....
....like cutting down the big tree next door....
....caused me to move the impatiens from the corner of the deck where I have been putting them for several years, to another location. I *had* to replace them with something else, but what?

OK, since that corner was now sunny, the portulaca (moss rose) could go there. Which, of course, meant that I had to move one of the other pots to this corner under the careful watch of the gargoyle.

When HD found this piece of driftwood and brought it to me, I didn't know for sure what to do with it, but after moving the portulaca from the front left corner to the right rear and seeing that I needed something extra to go with it, I knew just where to put it.

It sorta' has a gargoyle look about it, doesn't it?

Just my kind of decorating piece.

All this rearranging has me thinking about where I have the table, chairs and umbrella as well as the other two chairs and the little table between them, even the planter fastened to the deck rail.....chaos. Which is another name for the butterfly effect -  chaos theory.

I wonder what changes were wrought by the loss of this beautiful feather? Did it affect the bird's flight? Did it make a difference that I picked it up off the deck and added to my collection?

Change. The only constant in life.

Friday, August 17, 2018

Unobstructing Our View

The taking down of the big tree Monday inspired Bud to do a little tree work himself. Now that we have an unobstructed view toward Lake McKinley, we'll probably be able to see the fireworks again.

Hubby Dearest wanted me to be able to shoot sunsets over the pond without tree limbs in the picture, thus the trimming. And the photo shoot last evening.

Some of the upper limbs still sneak into the higher views, but when the sun begins setting further south, I will have a better chance for unobstructed sunset photos.

This one made me think of some of our views along the Blue Ridge Parkway ten years ago.

Another change due to the big tree being gone - I had to move the pots of impatiens - they were in too much sun without the shade from the tree. Now they are shaded by those mammoth sunflowers.

Close to where the caged bird sings - as happy with the sunflowers as I am.


Tuesday, August 14, 2018

A Day of Front Row Entertainment

Yes, Iowa's 'Great State Fair' is going on. But, no. I don't feel up to that much walking. We had a different form of front row entertainment in mind.
When our next door neighbor said she was having a tree taken down, we knew it would be interesting to watch.

It was a huge old maple tree in which raccoons had been nesting for years in the rotting trunk.

Not only did it hang over her house, a large limb also hung over ours. The neighbor and I both feared a wind storm bringing the tree down on us.

The crew arrived a little before 9 a.m. and promptly set to work. The photos will illustrate the progression.

One limb already denuded, starting on the second.

Starting to feed the chipper. I could not help but think of one of the men I worked with at Wright Tree Service. Ray was the 'computer guy' - the man who had begun his career with Wright as a member of the line clearing crews Wright had all over the country. It was while working in Colorado that Ray's right arm was eaten by a chipper all the way to his shoulder. He was lucky to survive.
Even though it was several years after his accident that I worked with him, I admired him for getting the training to become a computer specialist. I also admired Wright Tree Service for employing him as the computer expert.
Ray had been right-handed, so not only did he become adept with one arm, he also had to learn being left-handed.

I was amazed that almost all the upper portions of the tree were cut with this little 12" saw as well as that one guy did almost all the bucket work.

Our neighbor said we would have to move everything off our deck, but when the tree guys came they advised only that we take down the two shepherds' hooks - that everything else should be okay. I did move that favorite green pot back under the overhang though, just in case.

After about 45 minutes of work.

One hour into the job, while the bucket guy was doing most of the work, the four other team members were looking a very yellowed, seemingly old, newspaper. All I can make out is Enterprise. Nearby Afton's paper is the Star Enterprise. If this is an old copy, how old? And where did it come from? Was it in the hollow part of the tree?

Largest 'branch' to land on our deck.

I had some errands to run. This was the tree when I left.

And what it looked like when I returned about 45 minutes later.

Hung up for a few seconds, but coming down, limb by limb.

First load of chips just about ready to haul away.

After a lunch break and back to work. Looks almost like a couple of palm trees.

Last of the leafy limbs comes down. Now it's just cutting and dropping the bare limbs.

The directional wedge is cut and out. Time to saw through the trunk.

There she goes........timber!!

Why we were so worried about it coming down in a windstorm....it broke apart when it hit the ground.

John was the guy in the bucket doing all the sawing. He said he's only been doing this for six years. I figured it had been much longer - he worked so expertly.

No wonder the squirrels and raccoons nested inside. That looks like a pretty comfortable and warm place to bed down and raise little ones.

All that's left of a _?_ old tree. I didn't try to count the rings.

It will probably take me awhile to get used to the new view. And I'll probably miss having the shade. But I'm glad I won't have to worry about the tree coming down on our house in a wind storm.

Now maybe that young oak will have a chance to straighten out and grow.

Done with clean-up and gone by 4 p.m. This was certainly a considerate and professional tree service company.

Nice guys, too. When Bud told them how I had once gone up in a bucket when I worked for Wright Tree Service.....

.....John asked me if I'd like to go up in one again. "No way!"

But I sure enjoyed the day watching them work.