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Saturday, September 8, 2018

Wild September Continuation ---

-- or, what happens when two old friends get together.


Slightly off-topic, but after a week of rain (9.75" total in our guage) it is so nice to have sunny blue skies and white clouds.






My friend Kristina arrived for a visit between rains on Labor Day, which was also her birthday.
The rainy weather may have curtailed some activities, but not our gabbing. It only moved the location from the deck to the, out of the rain, patio.

As always, our conversations range from, first, catching up, then, reminiscing (we have been friends 40+ years), on to serious and frivolous.

There is always laughter - and some tears. But seldom, ditzy-ness. This year we did go from the sublime to the ridiculous and it was all my fault.

Somewhere in our convos I had told, then shown, her the geode gifted me in July - also about the scary "middle-of-the-night, two-men-between-our-houses, neighbor's-stolen-wallet" saga related in my previous blog post.

She was taking her dog to the back yard via the side yard and I said when they got back I would show her the two big geodes I had which had been my grandmother's.

I had no problem locating this one, right next to Lily's lilies, as I knew it was, but I couldn't find the other one. Obviously, it was under some of the lush, summer foliage - but I looked, looked again and still couldn't find it.
Then, my mind went there - obviously those two middle-of-the-night, up-to-no-good thieves had stolen my geode! Kristina and Bobby came back and I showed her this geode and told her the other one was gone. "Those two blankety-blanks must have taken it!"

I was so upset and she commiserated with me before heading on down the street for a longer walk. I was flummoxed, wondering why in the heck someone would pick up a heavy rock unless they were going to use it to break something. I decided I was being silly, went searching in the flower bed again until.....

.....I found it! And moved it from where it had been hiding before heading toward my friend to tell her. She was down the street aways, motioning me, 'come here' and tipping her head toward another house - in front of which were pieces of a geode. She thought for certain she had found my rock - broken up to reveal the glittery interior while also disguising its original look.

We came back laughing about it and telling Bud. Needless to say, he had fun teasing us during the rest of her stay. And, I know, it won't be forgotten during future visits. All one of us will have to say is geodes and the snickering will begin again.

Saturday, September 1, 2018

Wild September Starts

Facebook Memories this morning reminded me of my crazy start to September six years ago:
"Big scare and disheartening hour or so after publishing my blog this morning. I received notice that my blog had been deleted - not just today's post - the whole blog. Message said I could not post to it any more.
The only thing that I could figure out was that a few days ago I noticed some link had appeared on my site. When I clicked on it to see what it was, the message 'thank you' came up. I googled the name. Apparently it was some pornographic website. Did it/they somehow take over my blogspot and post inappropriate content which got my blog deleted?
Luckily, after near tears, I followed instructions and got my blog site back. So relieved. Moral of story - don't click on something when you don't know what it is."
I remember that day so well. Surprising that it has been six years ago already - 965 blog posts ago.

This first day of September began early with lightning, thunder and heavy rain, already three inches when it was light enough to read the guage during a lull between downpours.

A couple hours later the skies began to clear, looking more like a sunset than 7:30 in the morning. And I started getting ready to go to the grocery store.

When I went out the door to the patio all the cushions from the deck chairs that I had put there to keep dry were knocked over and the rugs I had covered them with were dirty. Then I noticed the patio chairs were not the way I left them. Upon closer examination they too were dirty and covered in, what I think was, dog hair.  I called Bud out to take a look and he said he thought he had heard some noise during the night. We concluded some kind of animal(s) had taken shelter from the rain.

Then I saw a neighbor and her dog coming back from their morning walk. I asked her if she had ever seen stray dogs around and told her my story. She said there had been one a couple months ago, but, "Have you heard?" and proceeded to tell me that a couple of nights ago the neighbor between our two houses had heard a noise, got up to look around and seen two men going between our houses. Also that one of the owners a few houses down had his car broken into and his wallet stolen. Six years to the day and more scary and disheartening news on the first day of September. And I always felt so safe here.😧

So then I got in my car and discovered sopping wet carpet under my feet. No, I didn't leave a window open. There has been a leak on the driver's side since I got the car. The dealer fixed it the first time and Bud has fixed it two or three times with some kind of silicone spray. Guess it needs it again. I stopped at the car wash to vacuum out as much as I could with their heavy duty wet/dry vac.

Then, home to wash the rugs, vacuum the chair cushions, move the patio furniture so I could park my car under there before the next round of rain and to, hopefully, deter stray dogs and/or two legged strays looking for something to steal. 
When I got into my car to move it there was a car coming down the street so I waited for it to go by, but it stopped next to me. I figured it was someone wanting to ask directions so I put my window down to see what they wanted and realized it was my son and daughter-in-law coming to see us and ask if we wanted to go to lunch. What a nice surprise!

Catching up with them, good food and lots of laughs -just what I needed to slow down another wild September start.

Friday, August 31, 2018

August Book List

Ten books read this month - six of them from the Lucas Davenport series.

One Sunday Morning by Amy Ephron is set during Prohibition. In sparse chapters, tersely penned, it relates how the strictures of polite society come into conflict with the liberated spirit of the Jazz Age.

Never Tell A Lie by Hallie Ephron is a psychological suspense tale of a yard sale gone terribly wrong. Reminded me some of Gone Girl. (Amy and Hallie Ephron are sisters.)

No Defense by Kate Wilhelm is the 5th in her Barbara Holloway series. I enjoy these mysteries set in the Eugene/Bend areas of Oregon. Wilhelm writes well and crafts good stories.

Broken Prey and Invisible Prey are #'s 16 and 17 in John Sandford's Lucas Davenport series.

All Things Bright and Beautiful is one of James Herriot's memoirs of his time as a country veterinarian in Yorkshire, England. These books were hugely popular 30 years ago and I resisted reading them at that time just because "everyone" else was reading them.
One of my Facebook friends recently reviewed them so convincingly I decided it was time I read at least one to see what I thought. I liked it immensely. It is beautifully written and reminded me so much of my own experiences growing up on a farm and around animals.

Phantom Prey, Wicked Prey, Storm Prey and Buried Prey are #'s 18, 19, 20 and 21 of John Sandford's Lucas Davenport series.

Thursday, August 30, 2018

Younkers Memories

A couple weeks ago when we were in Des Moines and drove along Douglas past Merle Hay Mall, I saw the big yellow "Going Out Of Business" sign on the Younkers building. The last Younkers Department Stores closed yesterday along with "it's the end of an era" comments.
An era is defined as "a long and distinct period of history with a particular feature or characteristic" and Younkers certainly held that distinction. Who, in Iowa, doesn't have memories of shopping at Younkers?

The history of Younkers goes back to Keokuk in 1856 where three brothers from Poland, Lipman, Samuel and Marcus Younker, opened a dry-goods store. A younger brother, Herman, established a store in Des Moines in 1874. The Keokuk store was closed five years later and his brothers joined him in operating the Des Moines location. The Younker Brothers main store was moved to 7th and Walnut in 1899.

In 1864, Julius Mandelbaum, a German immigrant, opened a dry-goods store at Second and Court in Des Moines. In the 1920's J. Mandelbaum and Sons merged with Younkers Brothers as part of Younkers, Inc.

My memories of shopping at Younkers go back to the late 60's, early 70's after we moved to an acreage northwest of Merle Hay Mall. At that time the Younkers store was the anchor on the south side of the Mall.
Two early memories involve my daughter: 1) Last minute Christmas Eve shopping and finding a 'price-slashed' doll for Kari. That was a big deal because we didn't have a lot to spend on Christmas gifts that year.
2) About three years later, driving to Merle Hay Mall in my old 9-passenger Ford station wagon with Kari in one of the two little, folding, jump seats in the back - right above a leaky exhaust system.

We entered the store and went to, as I remember it, the basement. I was looking around for whatever I went after, shoes, maybe?, when Kari crumpled to the floor. No, warning, no words, just out. I tried to rouse her with no response. Fear and panic gripped me and I started crying out for help. One of the Younkers associates bent down next to us and put her hand under Kari's head, thinking she might have been knocked out from striking her head as she fell. Just then Kari began to revive. It had only been a few seconds, but it seemed like forever. The clerk helping us suggested we take her to the employee lounge and led us there, providing a drink of water and a cool cloth for her forehead. (And a place for me to sit down before I fainted from my scare.)
I remember a male supervisor being summoned. Even though by then my daughter was completely revived, he wanted us to wait another twenty minutes to be sure she was okay. I suppose there was some concern about a lawsuit, but the store wasn't at fault. It was the fumes from my car's faulty muffler that had caused her to faint.

Other Younkers shopping memories are of the main store, after I started working downtown for an advertising and public relations firm in 1970. Anything you could want could be found somewhere in that shiny, lovely, huge department store. And my wanting was a hunger I couldn't afford to feed. I certainly couldn't afford to buy anything there. At least I didn't think I could until I found the bargain basement.

I knew about the famous Younkers Tea Room, but I never felt brave enough to walk through the designer dresses and furs show room to get there, let alone feel comfortable among the stylish women lunching in the Tea Room.
Ah, but the basement had its own affordable lunch counter. It was there I had my first Welsh Rarebit - and discovered it didn't contain any rabbit after all!
The basement, like the rest of the store, was a labyrinth one had to learn to navigate. In 1944, Younkers purchased the old Chase and West building across Eighth Street and opened The Younkers Store for Homes. It was in the underground passageway between it and the main store where I discovered the record department and bought my first Helen Reddy and John Denver LP's. There was also an area of close-out merchandise there which I regularly perused. I don't remember anything specific I bought, but glassware sticks in my mind.

On the east side of the first floor there was an escalator to the second floor. It was installed in 1939, the first escalator in Iowa. I remember jewelry, perfumes, wallets and purses on the ground floor where you stepped onto the moving stairs to rise regally to the second floor - or at least that is the way it felt to me - and be among rack after rack of women's dresses.

It was after I went to work at an advertising and public relations firm in the Empire Building that my experience with Younkers moved to a more personal level. My office was part of a suite spread across the entire south end of the 7th floor. From there back to the elevators smaller offices lined both sides of the hallway. The small, two-room office on the right as you walked out of our space was rented by a retired vice-president of Younkers. About half-way down on the left his brother, a lawyer, had an office.
My boss, Tom, and the retired Younkers exec, Bill, were friends. Bill did not need any office help except for an hour or two once in a while and someone to check his mail when he was out of town for two or three months during the winter. There were times I wasn't busy, so Bill offered to reimburse Tom for me to do some work for him. That is when I learned that Bill had an even closer relationship to Younkers than having worked for them - his wife was one of J. Mandelbaum's granddaughters.
Bill and his brother, Nick, usually had lunch together and once in awhile Tom and I would be invited to go along. I think that one of those times was the first time I entered Younkers Tea Room. I believe Bill's former secretary at Younkers and the then current head of Younkers were there that time, too. Or maybe it was a subsequent lunch, because Bill and Nick and Tom often included me when they went to the Des Moines Club (Bill's club) or to the Embassy (Tom's club). I mostly quietly ate and listened as the men discussed the topics of the day, which included politics, religion, world affairs, finance, etc. It was definitely a window on a whole 'nother world, for me.

After Denny and I separated and I began trying to establish credit in my own name, Younkers was the first store to issue me a credit card. (Possibly because my bank gave me my first - a Mastercard.) Shopping at Younkers took on a whole new perspective. (Do you remember your first credit card?) I still only bought things if they were on sale, but it was so marvelous to be able to get a new dress when I wanted to.

This was one of them. It looked like a 3-piece outfit - blouse, vest and skirt. But it was all one piece. The skirt was a burgundy, gray, black and white plaid. I felt so professional when wearing it.

Another one I especially remember was a full length black evening gown with a multi-colored jacket. I was looking specifically for just such an outfit and the only ones I could find were way too pricey. Then I found what I wanted at the Younkers Merle Hay store - and it was on sale!

Still so many more Younkers memories (including at least one of shopping at their Westroads Mall store in Omaha), but these are the final two - Younkers Parkade - the parking ramp on the north side of the downtown store. Remember how tight the exit spiral was? If you held the steering wheel clamped (and cramped) to the left you could go all the way down without changing it at all. And you arrived at the ticket booth slightly dizzy.

Lastly, this plaster of paris figurine. It is a treasure I paid $3.00 for, not at Younkers, but at a garage sale in Clive or West Des Moines many years ago. The woman I bought it from told me it had been part of a display in Younkers.
I call her the Younkers Mermaid.

The End. (Of an era.)

Wednesday, August 29, 2018

MD

I take a lot of pictures, many of them of my flowers. This one is of the tiniest blooms I have ever seen. Even though they are in a pot of sedum, they're the blossoms of small volunteer plant which looks very much like a shamrock - a teeny-tiny shamrock.

I take a lot of pictures. This month already, with three days yet to go, I have more than 450 in the August file and that doesn't count all I've taken and deleted.
This photo of two spent Cardinal Climber blooms made me think of earrings. But a recent realization is of how beautifully intricate the CC leaves are.

The statue and flower pots in this corner are being overtaken by the Cardinal Climber. Their hidden aspect makes me think "the secret garden". And then I'm reminded of the book - and movie. Do Zachary, Katrina and Alyssa remember when I took them to see the 1993 film? Or were they too young to remember?

I find myself taking more and more photos of clouds. This one, yesterday, of a swelling thunderhead above the swaying top of a cottonwood tree.

From the time I first had a camera of my own, I've tried to take artistic photos - like these scanned and made into a triptych.

Or this one, which, if you knew the name for the clematis and could read the rusty sign, you'd be able to extrapolate "Majestic Ramona". Which may seem more than a bit pretentious.....

.....until you remember that my blog is meant to be a reflection of my life for my family and friends.

Love After Love
   (By Derek Walcott 

The time will come
when, with elation
you will greet yourself arriving
at your own door, in your own mirror
and each will smile at the other's welcome,

and say, sit here. Eat.
You will love again the stranger who was your self.
Give wine. Give bread. Give back your heart
to itself, to the stranger who has loved you

all your life, whom you ignored
for another, who knows you by heart.
Take down the love letters from the bookshelf,

the photographs, the desperate notes,
peel your own image from the mirror.
Sit. Feast on your life.


If you are curious about the title of this post, MD is 1500 in Roman Numerals. And 1500 days is how old I was 39 days after this birthday picture of me was taken in 1947.

And this is the 1500th blog post of Chances R.

Tuesday, August 28, 2018

"Birds Do It, Bees Do It"

"Birds do it, bees do it, 
even educated fleas do it
Let's do it, let's fall in love." 
Cole Porter, 'Let's Do It' [Let's Fall In Love]


 Bees do it.


 Butterflies do it.


 Even wasps do it.

And if you're wondering about the birds...


 The scavengers have been flying over the pond the last few days.

 Looking for something - maybe love?


The preceding photos were taken earlier before this front moved through and brought us another nice rain. And cooler, dryer air if the forecasters are right.

Saturday, August 25, 2018

Adding To Grandma Bessie's Post Card Collection A Century+ Later

My blog post of September 26, 2010, "Postcards From the Past" was about old postcards from/to both my maternal and paternal grandmothers but the majority of the ones pictured were from Grandma (Bessie) Lynam's collection, many housed in the album pictured above.

In the same way that album found its way to me via one of Grandma's nephews (her sister Babe's [Agnes'] son, Ronald, to my brother Ronald to me), the two I received yesterday came from her niece, Elvera (Grandma's brother Leslie's daughter), through Elvera's daughter, Barb. (Are you confused yet? It would have been more confusing if my younger brother, Leslie, was involved.)

This is the first of the two cards Barb thoughtfully sent me. She said she found them among her mother's things and thought I would like to have them. She also wrote: "We all adored your Grandma Bessie." And I know they did, just as I loved her grandparents, Uncle Bus (Leslie) and Aunt Ethel.

The post card was "From Aggie" Sept. 1909; a fanciful and somewhat fragile card, given, rather than entrusted to the mail?

The second card is very pretty - a silver shoe filled with embossed roses and leaves. I wonder if the blank banner below the shoe was meant to hold a penned message?

I also wonder about this on the right edge: "Copyright J.P.N.Y. 1911".

Because on the back Grandma Bessie has noted: "Dec. 1909, Grandma Aggie". A card received in 1909 wouldn't have a 1911 copyright, would it?
Upon closer inspection it appears the back was a separate piece of paper glued to the card to make it a postcard. Did Grandma Aggie do that? Or did Grandma Bessie write down the wrong year she received it?

And why do I have to turn everything into a mystery instead of just enjoying the addition of these two cards back into Grandma's Post Card collection?

(Thank you, so much, Barb! 💖)