If you plug 'dementia' into the search box at the top left side of my blog, the returns will show you all the times I've already posted something about one of my biggest worries.
This is what I shared on Facebook yesterday: "Uh-oh. I've been forgetting names for some time, but this morning I found my box of cereal in the laundry room. 😊but not, more like 😟" It's hard to believe I didn't put it in the pantry cupboard as I do each and every day.
A couple of days ago and again today, two different old sayings, ones I haven't used or even thought of for ages, have popped out of my mouth. Is this another sign of aging - remembering more from youth and less about what happened yesterday?
The first was flying off the handle, which means losing self-control; acting before thinking. It alludes to the uncontrolled way a loose axe head flies off from its handle. (I used to have an axe like that. Really. I've also been known to fly off the handle - more than a few times.)
This morning, I forget what we were talking about, I said, that'll throw a spanner in it. Bud remarked the other way of saying the same thing, throw a wrench in it. Either way, it means to do something that prevents a plan or activity from succeeding.
A spanner is the British term for a wrench. Ah, back to my English great-great-great grandparents for credit.
I don't care if remembering old sayings is a sign of old age. I am happy to be remembering some of them. My grandparents had so many sprinkled throughout their daily conversations. It is almost like hearing their voices again.
Every cloud has a silver lining. Meaning even difficulties have some hopeful aspect, even if you can't see it yet. Isn't that what my picture of the clouds (from Tuesday evening) represent? Gray for grief; pink for possibilty?
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Thursday, June 28, 2018
Wowzers! 60-70 MPH Winds
Things got interesting around here just before noon. Skies darkened. Ugly looking clouds rolled rushed in.
Trees started whipping around.
Deck furniture got tossed about.
Lots of small limbs
and leaves littered the landscape.
The wind even brought a few medium-sized limbs down.
More tree thrashing...
...furniture displacement and hanging plant and wind chimes blown down, then it was pretty much over. Five or so minutes of WIND; no hail and only a smattering of rain.
Doing some further reconnoitering a couple hours later and I noticed a good-sized limb broken and hanging down in the tree next door. That is always my biggest concern - one of these days that rotten old maple is gonna come crashing down on our house.
I know there was a lot more damage in areas around us. I'm grateful for our good luck.
Trees started whipping around.
Deck furniture got tossed about.
Lots of small limbs
and leaves littered the landscape.
The wind even brought a few medium-sized limbs down.
More tree thrashing...
...furniture displacement and hanging plant and wind chimes blown down, then it was pretty much over. Five or so minutes of WIND; no hail and only a smattering of rain.
Doing some further reconnoitering a couple hours later and I noticed a good-sized limb broken and hanging down in the tree next door. That is always my biggest concern - one of these days that rotten old maple is gonna come crashing down on our house.
I know there was a lot more damage in areas around us. I'm grateful for our good luck.
Cattails and Heron
I have been taking a series of photos of the cattails.
Monday, they were dancing in the wind.
Yesterday, the heron went strolling by.
Last Saturday when I saw the heron, I thought there were two, or maybe a young one along.
Zooming in showed me something I had never seen before, the way the heron had its wings out. One site I found online calls this a sunning or wing drying posture. Another name is the flasher pose.
Half-way flashing. This is probably how it was standing when I first noticed it and thought there was more than one heron. By the time I got my camera and zoomed in, it had both wings out.
I am lucky to have so much wildlife just outside my window - and to see these, new-to-me, behaviors.
Blue-Eyed Grass
By Mary Hunter Austin
Blue-eyed grass in the meadow
And yarrow-blooms on the hill,
Cattails that rustle and whisper,
And winds that are never still;
Blue-eyed grass in the meadow,
A linnet's nest nearby,
Blackbirds caroling clearly
Somewhere between earth and sky;
Blue-eyed grass in the meadow,
And the laden bee's low hum,
Milkweeds all by the roadside,
To tell us summer has come.
Wednesday, June 27, 2018
Waked An Hour Too Soon
Morning Song
A Diamond of a morning
Waked me an hour too soon;
Dawn had taken in the stars
And left the faint white moon.
Oh white moon, you are lonely,
It is the same with me,
But we have the world to roam over,
Only the lonely are free.
(Sara Teasdale)
The 'pull of the moon' may have nothing to do with it, but I often have trouble sleeping when the moon is full, or almost full. Last night was so. Hard to go to sleep, early to waken. Although, the sad news of the death of my daughter-in-law's younger sister, probably had more to do with it than the phase of the moon. 💔😢
A Diamond of a morning
Waked me an hour too soon;
Dawn had taken in the stars
And left the faint white moon.
Oh white moon, you are lonely,
It is the same with me,
But we have the world to roam over,
Only the lonely are free.
(Sara Teasdale)
The 'pull of the moon' may have nothing to do with it, but I often have trouble sleeping when the moon is full, or almost full. Last night was so. Hard to go to sleep, early to waken. Although, the sad news of the death of my daughter-in-law's younger sister, probably had more to do with it than the phase of the moon. 💔😢
Tuesday, June 26, 2018
Love A Rainy Night
♪ ♪ Well I love a rainy night; I love a rainy night.
I love to hear the thunder;
watch the lightning when it lights up the sky. ♪ ♪
A week of cool, rainy weather. The official beginning of summer last Thursday felt more like May weather. May, when we had temperatures in the 90's with heat indices in the 100's, felt more like summer.
I took these two photos Sunday evening. Wind was blowing, rain was pouring and running down the street. We had 2.35 inches.
Yesterday afternoon it rained off and on. I wanted to go to the Farmers' Market at 4:00, but it was looking pretty iffy. Then it started clearing a bit so we went. There weren't as many vendors as usual because of the rain.
An hour or so later, it started raining hard. Then the tornado sirens went off. It didn't look that bad out, but we had lost TV coverage so didn't know what was going on until we went online and learned that, while no funnel clouds had been reported, the radar was showing bow echo returns southwest of us.
The rain and the danger had passed but there were still some thunder heads out there when I took this picture at 6:45.
At 8:15, the sun was shining.
♪ Showers wash all my cares away;
I wake up to a sunny day,
'cause I love a rainy night. ♪
We did have another 80/100's in the guage this morning for a total from last Tuesday to today of 4.65 inches of rain. At least here we do not worry about flooding. Creston was so named because it is located on the crest between the Missouri and Mississippi rivers; high ground.
But we have had two tornadoes in the ten years we've lived here, so there is that.
(Lyrics from Eddie Rabbit's I Love A Rainy Night)
I love to hear the thunder;
watch the lightning when it lights up the sky. ♪ ♪
A week of cool, rainy weather. The official beginning of summer last Thursday felt more like May weather. May, when we had temperatures in the 90's with heat indices in the 100's, felt more like summer.
I took these two photos Sunday evening. Wind was blowing, rain was pouring and running down the street. We had 2.35 inches.
Yesterday afternoon it rained off and on. I wanted to go to the Farmers' Market at 4:00, but it was looking pretty iffy. Then it started clearing a bit so we went. There weren't as many vendors as usual because of the rain.
An hour or so later, it started raining hard. Then the tornado sirens went off. It didn't look that bad out, but we had lost TV coverage so didn't know what was going on until we went online and learned that, while no funnel clouds had been reported, the radar was showing bow echo returns southwest of us.
The rain and the danger had passed but there were still some thunder heads out there when I took this picture at 6:45.
At 8:15, the sun was shining.
♪ Showers wash all my cares away;
I wake up to a sunny day,
'cause I love a rainy night. ♪
We did have another 80/100's in the guage this morning for a total from last Tuesday to today of 4.65 inches of rain. At least here we do not worry about flooding. Creston was so named because it is located on the crest between the Missouri and Mississippi rivers; high ground.
But we have had two tornadoes in the ten years we've lived here, so there is that.
(Lyrics from Eddie Rabbit's I Love A Rainy Night)
Tuesday, June 19, 2018
Designed By A Master Architect
Forty-four years ago, I was working in downtown Des Moines in a modernistic building designed by master architect Ludwig Mies van der Rohe. To me it was the Home Federal Savings and Loan building. I had only been there a few months as secretary to the head of advertising and public relations when the company became American Federal Savings and Loan due to a merger with a Cedar Rapids S&L.
That merger (or was it a take-over?) changed everything for me as well as a number of other employees. My boss was replaced. The new guy was originally from Red Oak so I figured we would get along, both being reared in small town, agriculture-centered, southwest Iowa. I was quickly disabused of that notion when he brought over his team from his former company, getting rid of everyone in the department except me. I knew he wanted his former secretary in my spot and he did everything he could to make my life miserable so I would leave. His tactics worked. As soon as I could find another job, I quit. (And went on to another good job/miserable boss, but that's another story.)
This postcard of the building (found online) shows how it looked when I worked there. The lobby area was for customers, the top floor was for the executives, the advertising/public relations office was on the second floor, right side in this photo. The church behind is St. Ambrose Cathedral.
What I remember about my time there - the people were congenial, I liked and got along with the women in my office. It was the era of gift-giving to entice customers to open a savings account or add to their accounts. Part of my department's job was making a display of those gifts in the lobby area and fetching premiums from the stash in the basement for the tellers to hand out.
In addition to our locked room of bounty down there, I also remember the huge computer which somehow involved punch cards. I didn't understand how it worked then and I still don't. (As an aside, remember when punched cards bore the warning: "Do not fold, spindle or mutilate"? How carefully we rules followers obeyed! Who today even knows what a spindle is?)
It was during the Home Federal/American Federal transition that our department was given the job of inventorying all the customer premiums we had on hand. The majority of those were dishes being stored upstairs in a warehouse on Court Avenue. It was a hot, dirty and, seemingly, never-ending task. Boxes of place settings were open, broken dishes were strewn about. We had to have as accurate a count as possible. (I think I had some of that brown stonewear, but I know I had a partial set of the 'gold' flatware and a large apple-shaped salad bowl with small serving-sized dishes; one of the benefits of working in the advertising department.)
Another thing I remember about working there was the quiet court yard of nearby St. John's Lutheran Church. On the days I wasn't shopping or running erands, it was a peaceful oasis where I could eat my lunch and read a book.
I don't know what happened to American Federal Savings and Loan after I left there, and, eventually, Des Moines, but the building is now the Catholic Pastoral Center. It was a story about the completion of a ten-million dollar restoration of the 'hidden-gem' of a building that triggered the memories of my time there.
That merger (or was it a take-over?) changed everything for me as well as a number of other employees. My boss was replaced. The new guy was originally from Red Oak so I figured we would get along, both being reared in small town, agriculture-centered, southwest Iowa. I was quickly disabused of that notion when he brought over his team from his former company, getting rid of everyone in the department except me. I knew he wanted his former secretary in my spot and he did everything he could to make my life miserable so I would leave. His tactics worked. As soon as I could find another job, I quit. (And went on to another good job/miserable boss, but that's another story.)
This postcard of the building (found online) shows how it looked when I worked there. The lobby area was for customers, the top floor was for the executives, the advertising/public relations office was on the second floor, right side in this photo. The church behind is St. Ambrose Cathedral.
What I remember about my time there - the people were congenial, I liked and got along with the women in my office. It was the era of gift-giving to entice customers to open a savings account or add to their accounts. Part of my department's job was making a display of those gifts in the lobby area and fetching premiums from the stash in the basement for the tellers to hand out.
In addition to our locked room of bounty down there, I also remember the huge computer which somehow involved punch cards. I didn't understand how it worked then and I still don't. (As an aside, remember when punched cards bore the warning: "Do not fold, spindle or mutilate"? How carefully we rules followers obeyed! Who today even knows what a spindle is?)
It was during the Home Federal/American Federal transition that our department was given the job of inventorying all the customer premiums we had on hand. The majority of those were dishes being stored upstairs in a warehouse on Court Avenue. It was a hot, dirty and, seemingly, never-ending task. Boxes of place settings were open, broken dishes were strewn about. We had to have as accurate a count as possible. (I think I had some of that brown stonewear, but I know I had a partial set of the 'gold' flatware and a large apple-shaped salad bowl with small serving-sized dishes; one of the benefits of working in the advertising department.)
Another thing I remember about working there was the quiet court yard of nearby St. John's Lutheran Church. On the days I wasn't shopping or running erands, it was a peaceful oasis where I could eat my lunch and read a book.
I don't know what happened to American Federal Savings and Loan after I left there, and, eventually, Des Moines, but the building is now the Catholic Pastoral Center. It was a story about the completion of a ten-million dollar restoration of the 'hidden-gem' of a building that triggered the memories of my time there.
Monday, June 18, 2018
Whether Skies Are Gray Or Blue
It was while transferring the photos I took yesterday from my camera to my computer .....
.....the morning sunrise.....
.....the evening sunset, which is usually my favorite because of the pinks and purples.....
.....until this one. I like it the best, which was strange because I don't usually go for the blues. Then I decided the tones were more gray than blue. I like gray.
And that is when, in my head I heard: ♪Whether skies are gray or blue♪ Followed a second later by My Happiness. Was that the name of the song? I had to Google it to find out, yes, it was. And it was one of the hits for a singer I had not thought about in years - Connie Francis. Oh, my gosh, how could I forget about her?
Who's Sorry Now? was her first big hit in 1957 followed by Heartaches, Stupid Cupid and My Happiness in 1958. In 1959, there was If I Didn't Care, Lipstick On Your Collar and Among My Souvenirs. Her Billboard #1 hits were Everybody's Somebody's Fool and My Heart Has A Mind Of Its Own, both in 1960, and Don't Break The Heart That Loves You in '62. Her songs were a part of the background of my high school years.
My Happiness
(Music and Lyrics by Borney Bergantine and Betty Peterson Blasco)
Evening shadows make me blue
When each weary day is through
How I long to be with you, my happiness
Every day I reminsce
Dreaming of your tender kiss
Always thinking how I miss my happiness
A million years it seems
Have gone by since we shared our dreams
But I'll hold you again
There'll be no blue memories then
Whether skies are gray or blue
Any place on earth will do
Just as long as I'm with you, my happiness
This morning the skies are blue; by evening they may again be gray, but, no matter.....
.....whether skies are gray or blue.....
.....the morning sunrise.....
.....the evening sunset, which is usually my favorite because of the pinks and purples.....
.....until this one. I like it the best, which was strange because I don't usually go for the blues. Then I decided the tones were more gray than blue. I like gray.
And that is when, in my head I heard: ♪Whether skies are gray or blue♪ Followed a second later by My Happiness. Was that the name of the song? I had to Google it to find out, yes, it was. And it was one of the hits for a singer I had not thought about in years - Connie Francis. Oh, my gosh, how could I forget about her?
Who's Sorry Now? was her first big hit in 1957 followed by Heartaches, Stupid Cupid and My Happiness in 1958. In 1959, there was If I Didn't Care, Lipstick On Your Collar and Among My Souvenirs. Her Billboard #1 hits were Everybody's Somebody's Fool and My Heart Has A Mind Of Its Own, both in 1960, and Don't Break The Heart That Loves You in '62. Her songs were a part of the background of my high school years.
My Happiness
(Music and Lyrics by Borney Bergantine and Betty Peterson Blasco)
Evening shadows make me blue
When each weary day is through
How I long to be with you, my happiness
Every day I reminsce
Dreaming of your tender kiss
Always thinking how I miss my happiness
A million years it seems
Have gone by since we shared our dreams
But I'll hold you again
There'll be no blue memories then
Whether skies are gray or blue
Any place on earth will do
Just as long as I'm with you, my happiness
This morning the skies are blue; by evening they may again be gray, but, no matter.....
.....whether skies are gray or blue.....
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