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Sunday, June 30, 2024

June 2024 Reading List

Seven books read this month:

The Seamstress of Acadie is the first book I've read by author Laura Frantz. It is a historical fiction about the forced eviction of the Acadians from their land. (Nova Scotia) I've always thought of them as settling in Louisiana, but this book tells of the ones who settled in Virginia.

Portrait of an Unknown Woman by Daniel Silva is #22 in his Gabriel Allon series. I especially enjoy the ones that feature art works, as this one does. 

Pearl Cove by Elizabeth Lowell is #3 in her Donovan series. I didn't realize this was a series. I may or may not go back to read the first two if my library has them.

Table for Two by Amor Towles is my favorite read this month. Towles' writing is so splendid - such a pleasure to read. This book contains six shorter stories set in New York and a novella set in the golden age of Hollywood. 

Murder in the Tea Leaves by Laura Childs is #27 in her Tea Shop Mystery series. These are what I call cozy little murder mysteries. They all have a similiar theme. They are quick reads with predictable outcomes but I've been reading them for so long I feel an obligation to myself to keep reading them as long as she keeps writing them.

The Proof Of The Pudding by Rhys Bowen is #17 of the Royal Spyness Mystery series. Just as I said about the above book, I feel the same about these books, although I feel these have a little more substance and better story lines than the tea shop mysteries. But maybe that's because these are set in England and I'm a bit of an anglophile. 

Winter in Paradise is the first book in the Elin Hilderbrand Paradise series. I've read several of Hilderbrand's books set on Nantucket partly because of the memories of my visit to that island many years ago. Now I will be reading this new series, set on the island of St. John, U.S. Virgin Islands, for the same reason - memories of my vacation to all three of the U.S. Virgins and two of the British Virgins a very long time ago. Not only did this novel bring back my memories of that beautiful area, I also learned things about St. John that I didn't know. My son and daughter-in-law have made several trips to St. John the last few years. It is their favorite vacation destination. I understand why. 


The Reef Trail petroglyphs are one the things I learned from the book. I wish I could have seen these.

The two things I remember most about St. John were turquoise waters of Caneel Bay and the Annaberg sugar mill ruins.

I can't imagine my life without books.



Saturday, June 29, 2024

Living On Island Time

 


The book I am currently reading is set on St. John, U.S. Virgin Islands.  Not only is it bringing back long ago memories, I am learning things about the island that I did not know.

I've written about my one trip to the Virgin Islands fifty-six years ago (February 2010 blog) as well as mentioning the several trips my son Douglas and daughter-in-law Shelly have made there.

(Photo from my son's FB page.)



But I was not aware of the Reef Bay Trail petroglyphs until I read about them in this book.

I would love to have seen those. I asked Doug if he had and he said he had not - "The elevation change of the two mile is brutal and the day we were planned to hike it was too hot."

(Photo from National Park Service page.)



It would be wonderful to make a trip back to the islands and see all the changes since I first saw them. But that is not in the cards for me.

So I'll get back to my book and travel there via it. (As I do in almost every book I read - which is why I love reading.)

Wednesday, June 26, 2024

What You Find In A Cigar Box

 Last December I wrote about old pictures of my paternal grandmother, Bessie, given to me by my cousin's husband after she died. (Grandma was Barb's great aunt.)

A few days ago his daughter-in-law brought me this cigar box. It was stuffed full of newspaper clippings that Grandma had saved. The box itself is a treasure. The lid advertises the St. Louis World's Fair commemorating the centennial of the signing of the Louisiana Purchase Treaty. The blue rectangles are corners of the "U.S. Inter Rev." stamp that sealed the box.


The notice on the back cautioned against the reuse of the box for cigars. 

The box is 5"x8" and 1" deep. It originated in FACTORY No. 2260, I (Or1) DIST. PENN. 25 ((I think refers to number of cigars in box) then [PHILADELPHIA]



At the top, on the inside of the lid, Grandma had written their names and ages and the date they were married. Two clippings inside the box were these: On the left a picture, taken in 1920, of the old mill on the Middle Nodaway River in Mt. Etna. Even though it was gone before my time I was always aware of where it had been and had seen pictures of it because at one time it was operated by my great-great grandparents, David and Catherine Lippincott. 

Until I read the clipping I did not know that the mill was moved to Creston and located at Union and Birch Streets where it was occupied by the Farmer's Feed and Grain Company until it "burned down several years ago" according to this clipping which Grandma had dated as October 16, 1967. (I checked the Adams County History Book just before I published this and it does tell about moving the mill to Creston. So I had known that at one time and had forgotten it.)

In the right clipping, dated October 1963 is a photo of a steam locomotive and below it a partial picture of people waiting to board the train. The man wearing sunglasses at the far right is my dad, Louis Lynam. On the left is a woman holding a young child. I am almost certain that is me holding Douglas. The occasion was the last run of 'old 5632'. It would take us sixty miles west to Pacific Junction, turn around and come back. Dad, Mom, Doug and I went because the elementary class my younger brother, Leslie,  was in was one of the classes picked to go. It seemed like a great adventure to begin but by the time we got to PJ and back I was so done with the smell of smoke and cinders blowing around.  

Other clippings included an old photo of men and twelve horses which powered a thresher in the 1890's. Grandma had written at the top: "I remember this when this was the way they did it."

A March 1955 Rosary Hospital Financial Report: "Out of each dollar you spend for hospital care ... we must spend: Nursing Service - .45; X-Ray and Laboratory - .10; Operation of Plant - .22; Food - .12; Laundry - .04; Administration - .07; Total - $1.00. During the past year the cost per patient day of hospital care was $20.15. This cost covers food, fuel, nursing care, drugs, other medicinal supplies as dextrose, oxygen, cost of laundry, housekeeping, maintenance of building and equipment. Some interesting statistics for the year are: Average length of stay -- 5.7 days. Births -- 245. Deaths -- 40. Laboratory tests -- 8,252. Patients treated -- 1,560. Surgery -- 365. X-Rays -- 874 and Patients' Days -- 7,854." 

She saved a full page titled: "That Plant May Be Pretty, And Common -- and Poison." I knew that about some of the plants featured in the article, but not all of them. I will keep this handy for possible future reference. 😈😍

There's a publicity photo of a man with a microphone and at the bottom "Colonial Manors - Where People Grow Young". Someone had written "Joe Feeney" on the photo. Grandma lived at the Corning Colonial Manor the last years of her life. When I look up Joe Feeney I find that he was a tenor singer and a member of The Lawrence Welk TV show. Did he entertain at Colonial Manor?

Grandma also saved a clipping about Billy Cole: "Profile...WHO's new country music DJ." I wrote a blog post about Billy and his Corning connection a year and a half ago - December 6, 2023. I wonder if my grandmother was also a fan of his.

She saved five full page schedules from the late 60's and early 70's about the opening day of the school year which also included members of the Board of Education, Administration, Office Personnel, Teachers' Aides, Teachers, Bus Drivers, Custodians, cost of school lunches and activities and special dates. Also three clippings from the early 1960's showing the salaries for teachers, administrators, bus drivers, teachers' aides, substitute teachers, office personnel and custodians. But why? She did live directly across the street from an elementary building and a block away from the high school. Perhaps that was the reason. One of my favorite teachers (junior year English and senior year Journalism) earned an annual salary of $3,916.68. The one I babysat with his five children for only earned $3,600.04. No wonder I only got .25 cents an hour for babysitting. 

With my love of history, this box and these clippings are treasures. The fact that they are things my  Grandma Lynam saved makes them even more so. I was curious about the cigar box, thinking its age might make it collectible and tried to learn more about it but found nothing on the internet.

Just thinking about cigar boxes in general reminded me of how available they used to be. It seems like we could ask for an empty cigar box at the grocery store and we could have them free. They were handy for storing small items and could easily be stacked on a shelf. We might have also gotten some from our landlord because he was a cigar smoker.

Maybe this box was one my Grandpa Lynam kept. I don't remember much about him, I was only four when he died, but had he been a cigar smoker? 



Well, there is this photo of him from the 1920's and it does look like that could be a cigar in his mouth. So....

The young boy is my Dad. Grandma Bessie is on the right. The woman on the left is Grandma's sister-in-law Ruby Duncan.

It really is interesting what you might find in an old cigar box.






Tuesday, June 25, 2024

From Dream Journal to Quotes Journal

 

June, 1992 I opened a new 9-1/2" x 6" notebook specifically to record my dreams. I have always believed that my dreams held a lot of information I needed to understand - my subconscious self informing my conscious self. 

On the opening page I wrote: "Those who lose dreaming are lost." Aboriginal Proverb.  Dream - Time" and then my name and the year. I filled seven and a half pages with dreams that June. Then blank pages until April 21, 1999 - three pages recording a dream and some thoughts about why I dreamt it.

Then two more dreams, one May 24, 2014 and one in July 2021. Both were about my Mom and both in which I heard her say my name so clearly that each time it woke me up.


I would have absolutely no luck writing down my dreams anymore because I cannot remember them at all. What bits and pieces I do remember are pretty wild.

For more years than this journal has been in existence, I have been writing down passages from books I read and quotes that spoke to me on bits and pieces of paper, whatever was at hand at the time. Then one day I thought: Why don't I write those quotes, etc. in a notebook and have them all in one place. 

So on August 16, 2020 my Dream Journal became my Quotes Journal. And the first quote was a passage from Elizabeth Strout's book Olive Again p. 195 'Exiles':  "And it came to him then that it should never be taken lightly, the essential loneliness of people, that the choices they made to keep themselves from that gaping darkness were choices that required respect."

Two quotes on August 22: "The scent of the willow was sharp and secret."  - From Louise Erdrich's book The Night Watchman. First, I have always loved the scent of willows. Second, if you haven't read Louise Erdrich's books, you are really missing out. Regardless of subject matter/storyline, her writing is exquisite and the tale significant.

And the first four lines from Emily Dickinson's poem This World is not Conclusion:

This World is not Conclusion.
A Species stands beyond - 
Invisible, as Music -
But positive, as Sound -

I've had much more success with keeping my Quotes Journal than I did the Dream Journal. On the second page of quotes I copied this one: October 25, 1993 - "We possess ideas, but we are possessed by feelings. They lie too deep for understanding, astir with their own secret life and carrying us with them." From The Year of the French by Thomas Flanagan. (Copied from my Spiritual Journey Journal) Now I need to find that notebook and see how long and how many pages I wrote in it! 😉

"How lovely to be compared to the seasons! You are a poet - writing to another poet's heart." (From another of my old journals: 6-14-74)

"These pictures of her, like everything else, are drenched in time." From Cat's Eye by Margaret Atwood.

"The who you are with others is not you. To be lonesome is to be who you most fully are." From Varina by Charles Frazier.

"A world of any kind begins at the outskirts of your imagination."

"Memories are poetic truths that blur the lines between reality and fantasy."

"The grab bag nature of my mind." Ivan Doig

"Nourish yourself with grand and austere ideas of beauty that feed the soul ... seek solitude." Delacroix

"All of us preserve time. We preserve the old versions of the people who have left us. And under our skin, under the layers of wrinkles and experiences and laughter, we, too, are old versions of ourselves. Directly below the surface, we are our former selves: the former child, the former lover, the former daughter." From The Little Paris Bookshop by Nina George.



One of my greatest pleasures the past few years has been taking photos to go along with my blog posts and Facebook posts.

In that context - here is a picture of a willow tree to go along with one of the quotes above.

Are you also a quote keeper? Favorites?


Wednesday, June 19, 2024

Celebrating Father's Day and Birthdays

Fourteen family members celebrated Father's Day and two birthdays in Winterset last Saturday. And I celebrated meeting great--grandson Henri Oliver for the first time.


Newest father Travis holding Henri. He is also Dad to 3yr. old Louis.

Travis is definitely a hands on Dad. He says being a father is the greatest job.





Ki is also a Dad to two boys. Pictured here with soon-to-be (July 1st) ten year old Ayden.



Ki's youngest son, Greyson, the other birthday boy, will be nine June 30.

He and his Uncle Ian were putting together a water table. I loved the way Ian was helping Grey read and understand the instructions. Not telling him how or showing him what to do, but letting Greyson figure it out step by step. 

Maybe Greyson will follow in Ian's footsteps and become an engineer, too. 




Once it was put together, Ayden had the task of filling it with water - with Louis' help, of course.





After lunch - time to open those presents!

First there were some cards with $5 bills, then ones with $10 bills.

Then aunts and uncles started giving them money, sans cards.

Then a couple more cards with $5 bills.

These two were pretty excited with all the money. I think they each ended up with $35 along with some very nice gifts. 

Wonder if they will have all the money spent before their actual birthdays. 😄





Grandpa Preston, aka Papa Bear, was tasked with putting Henri to sleep for a needed nap. For some reason my son has a talent for this.

It wasn't long before they were both snoozing. 💙





Louis was asking me to take the stem out of his grape.

At first I didn't understand what he wanted which may explain the look on his face.

He is such a sweetie and has grown so much since I last saw him. He has also developed quite the vocabulary for a three year old. His Mom told me that after a recent meeting with other adults for lunch after he had eaten he asked: "What's our time frame for leaving." 😍




A nice photo of Grandpa Preston and Grandma Shalea with Louis.






Four generations Great-grandma Ramona, Granddaughter Kathryn holding Louis and my son, Preston holding Henri.






A sweet photo of mother and babe. 

Granddaughter Kathryn holding great-grandson Henri Oliver.

He is just so cute.


Henri's parents, grandparents and great-grandparents:

Back row great-grandfathers Pete (Shalea's dad) and Bud (Preston's step-father), great-grandmother Ramona (Preston's mom), Travis and Kathryn, Henri's Dad & Mom.

Grandmother Shalea leaning on the chair and Grandpa Preston holding Henri.




And lastly, a happy to finally be meeting and holding him, me with my tenth great-grandson (12th great-grandchild).

I treasure every one of them. 

I am glad I married young and had my children by the time I was 28. And that they married young and had their children just so I could be a young grandmother and live to see so many of my great-grands. 

What a fortunate life I have lived. 💗

 


Monday, June 10, 2024

There Is Something About Morning Light

Am I just one of few who notice how and what the early morning light plays up? How it shines like a spotlight on one object or like this a.m., just a shaft quietly insisting "look at me". I feel I'm in good company when my favorite female poet has also found inspiration in the morning light. 








Morning Light

Every morning
 the good news
  pours
   through the field

touching
 every blossom
  every stem
   and each of them,

on the instant
 offers to be part of it—
  offers to lift and hold, willingly
   the vast burden of light

all day.
 In my life
  I have never seen it to fail—
   flower after flower

leaf after pearly leaf,
 to the acre,
  to the massy many,
   is silvered, is flooded;

and such voices
 spangle among it—
  larks and sparrows—
   all those small souls—

are everywhere
 tossing the quick wheels of pleasure
  from their red throats
   as they hang on—

as though on little masts
 of golden ships,
  to the tops of the weeds—
   and that’s when I come—

that’s when I come, crying out to the world:
 oh give me a corner of it
  to lift also, to sing about, to touch
   with my wild hands—and they do.


Not long after the stone butterfly my daughter-in-law Shelly gave me was highlighted, I saw my first black swallowtail of the year. I took that as another sign, just in case I had missed the first one.   


Saturday, June 1, 2024

Of Pigs, Petunias and Pen Pals

Sign, omen or impetus? My M-W Word of the Day is svelte - an adjective used to describe someone slender, thin or graceful in an attractive way. A word that might have been used to describe moi in my younger days. 

It was used, in fact, by my new pen pal in reference to this photo of me costumed as Miss Piggy during my appearance in the homecoming parade back in the 80's. 

Did you know Miss Piggy was from Iowa (Keystone)? I did not until my pen pal told me. And is pen pal correct if you are communicating by email?

Was it my love of pigs that gave me the impetus to portray Miss Piggy? I don't remember, but the word of the day was my impetus for finally writing about pen pals.



I remember having a pen pal when I was in grade school. My first one was from some kind of list. I don't remember the girl's name nor where she lived.

This was my 7th grade school picture. My friend Virginia gave me her cousin Eleanor's address. I wrote to her asking her to be my pen pal. We only exchanged two or three letters. 

When I was in 8th grade my teacher gave me her niece's name and address and we corresponded quite a bit. I even went to her 8th grade graduation with my teacher.


My cousin Lila had much better luck with her pen pal. They began writing to one another when she was young. Their correspondence lasted sixty some years. (And still may be ongoing.)

I know Lila's daughter, Valerie, drove her to Delaware? New Jersey? - one of the east coast states - where Lila and her pen pal finally met in person.

(Not apropos to this post, but as a means of informing family members, sadly Val died yesterday after being on dialysis some time.)



I probably won't get to meet my new email pal (doesn't have the same ring, does it?) in person even though we both live in the same state and along the same highway. But I'm enjoying getting to know her via the internet. She contacted me after first finding my blog while searching about an old saying and then seeing my blog about the swans at Green Valley State Park followed very soon after when she saw my swan photo used by Channel 13 weather.

In her first email she wrote about how much we seemed to have in common and gave several examples. She even closed with one of my favorite Rumi quotes. I was really exhilarated by her reaching out to me. To use a current saying - I felt 'seen'. (Recognized and accepted.) But with all the scams out there, I was a little leery. Luckily she had given me her name as well as her email address. By searching her name and town, I was reassured that she wasn't a catfisher.

I wrote right back to her - and then heard nothing. I was let down, disappointed and worried again that it may have somehow been a scam. That all happened in February. I got over it. Then last month she contacted me again after reading my post about the Pink Full Moon, wondering if the tornado that hit our area April 26 had affected us, wondering if I had received her original message to me as she had not heard back. 

Wow, so she hadn't changed her mind about staying in contact. I wrote back immediately and told her I had answered her. Somehow my message went astray. But I was so glad she tried again. We have been exchanging emails ever since. Learning about each other, our families - and even more about the ways we are alike. I owe her a letter, but before I leave this blog post.....


..... here are the petunias I mentioned in the title.

I am so glad I decided to get this color of petunias for these planters.

Early this morning when I took the photo they were practically shining in the cloudy morning dimness. 

I thought: ghost flowers

And then a black cat, almost a shadow, crossed the deck. No bad luck yet.